99 funny & cheesy pickup lines in Spanish to use at your own risk!

If you’re single, in a Spanish-speaking country, and ready to mingle, we’ve got 99 phrases and pickup lines to flirt in Spanish!

Taking Spanish lessons is a great way to improve your Spanish — but so is dating! We mean it. One of the best things you can do for your Spanish fluency is to increase the total input and output. In other words, the more you speak and listen to Spanish, the better you will get. And what better way to do that than with a special someone who will keep you interested all day long? 

And don’t worry, even if you’re still a beginner at Spanish, you can definitely find a way to flirt. If you know how to say hi in Spanish, then you’ve already won half the battle! Flirting in Spanish can help you: 

• Make lifelong connections. Even if things don’t work out in the long run, you can still meet great new people who you can remain friends with for a long time!
• Improve your listening skills. The more Spanish you listen to, the sooner you’ll become fluent! It’s one of our top tips for learning Spanish to advanced fluency, fast.
• Grow your vocabulary. Having someone to compliment endlessly can help you add new words to your vocabulary like nothing else, from royalty words like queen and princess to the most beautiful flowers. 
• Have fun! At the end of the day, you’re more likely to stick to anything if you’re enjoying it — including a foreign language. Plus, flirting involves many funny Spanish words that are sure to get a kick out of you even if you already have a partner! 

Ready to go out and find the love of your life? Though we can’t guarantee that we will find you your special person, we’ll equip you with everything you need to go out and give it your best shot! We’ll walk you through everything you need to consider, from starting a conversation all the way to cultural considerations to help you stay respectful. 

Let’s get going!

How to say flirt in Spanish

Before you set out to conquer hearts in Spain or Latin America, you need to start with the very basics of flirting in Spanish. Let’s start with how you actually say flirt in Spanish: coquetear (coh-keh-teh-are). This is a regular -ar verb, so you can conjugate it as normal. 

This verb can also be used as an adjective when you want to describe someone who is a flirt: coqueto/a (coh-keh-toe/coh-keh-tah). 

Here are some examples of this word in action:

Slang ways to say flirt in Spanish

As you already know, learning some Spanish slang is essential if you want to navigate more than just your textbook. Although the term coquetear is still quite common, you’ll likely hear some slang words more often, since you’ll usually discuss flirting with your friends. Here are some common slang words for “flirt” in Spanish. 

How to flirt in Spanish with natural conversation 

Flirting is all about starting a conversation smoothly. No matter how interested you are, you can’t just walk up to someone and tell them you love them! You’ll have to go slowly, take some time to introduce yourself, and test out a pick-up line or two. Once you see that there’s a connection, you can take things to the next level and ask them out on a formal date. 

But let’s not get too ahead of ourselves! Let’s get started with a few ways to grease the wheels before diving into our favorite pick-up lines.

Introducing yourself

Possibly the most straightforward way to approach someone is by walking up to them and introducing yourself. It’s a classic that just never gets old and having the confidence to simply walk up to someone and say, “Hi, my name is,” can speak volumes about your bravery and character.

If you’re going to take this approach, it’s probably best to introduce yourself and follow up with one of the phrases in the section below. We’ve got 99+ pick-up lines in Spanish for you, so even if you don’t think they’re your thing, we’re sure you can find something that vibes with you! 

Asking how they are and inquiring about their welfare

A genuine “how are you?” can open the door to exciting conversations. Even if you don’t know someone personally, starting the conversation with an earnest inquiry into their well-being can help you give the best first impression. 

After all, we’re all humans with complex feelings and emotions, and having someone who wants to make sure that you’re okay is always appreciated. 

Here are a few ways to start a conversation by asking someone how they’re doing. 

Talking about the weather

Although this conversation topic is often regarded as a last resort for when you’ve truly run out of things to discuss, it can actually be a pretty good way to strike up a conversation with someone you’ve never met before! 

And don’t worry. You won’t have to resort to cheesy weather pick-up lines (unless you want to!). Simply commenting on the weather can be a good enough way to initiate a conversation, and you can easily take it from there. Feel like showing off your Spanish skills? Try commenting on some local landforms, like the beach or a notorious mountain!

Talking about where you’re from

Asking someone where they’re from is a fantastic way to get to know them. If you’re traveling in Spain or a Latin American country, you may find yourself answering questions about your nationality when you meet someone for the first time. Connecting with people who are different from you can be one of the best ways to push yourself out of your comfort zone and learn from someone who not only speaks a different language but may also have had a completely different lived experience than you. After all, learning from different cultures is one of the biggest benefits of learning a new language!

Even if you don’t meet the love of your life, you could still make interesting connections with people you might find yourself talking to for the rest of your life. 

Buying someone a drink

Another classic way to start a conversation is by offering to buy someone a drink. Whether it’s a fancy cocktail, an ice-cold beer or a nice cup of coffee, you should know how to order a drink in Spanish so you know what to do when you run into the love of your life. 

The key verb to know here is “invitar” (een-vee-tar). Its literal translation is “to invite,” but it can also mean “to treat.” If you want to buy someone a drink, you’ll want to ask a question using this verb. Here are a few examples, but make sure to check out our beverage blog lessons from above to increase your range!

Complimenting their appearance or personality

Perhaps a bolder move, but starting out with some compliments in Spanish can also help you make a good first impression. If this is the case, you’ll probably want to start by complimenting something plainly obvious, like their hair, eyes, or beautiful smile (check out our guide to body parts in Spanish if you haven’t already!). Once you’ve gotten to know them for a bit, you could also try complementing their character by highlighting some of their personality traits that you like!

When complimenting physical appearance or personality traits, you’ll want to use “qué” with an accent mark and without a question mark. If you already know how to ask questions in Spanish, you probably know “qué” as the Spanish translation of “what?” However, when “qué” is used without a question mark, it becomes a determinant and can help emphasize an adjective, just as the English “what.” Here are some examples:

99+ funny and cheesy pickup lines in Spanish to use at your own risk

Now that you’ve got several different ways to approach someone you’re interested in, you’re finally ready to start flirting in Spanish! Below, we’ve compiled 99 of the best ways to flirt in Spanish, including terms of endearment, some clichés, interesting rhetorical questions, and, why not, a few cheesy pick-up lines. 

While none of the pick-up lines below are crass or vulgar, remember to always be respectful and avoid being too pushy. Read the room before you approach someone, and don’t forget to give it your all! The worst thing that can happen is they say no, right? 

How to turn someone down in Spanish

If you find yourself on the flip side and need to tell someone that you’re not interested, we’ve got you. At the end of the day, rejection is something that you can’t take personally. As the popular Spanish saying goes, “En gustos se rompen géneros,” which is an ode to how everyone has their own unique taste and, when it comes to preferences, it’s impossible to generalize. 

Here are some kind yet assertive ways to let someone know that you’re simply not interested in them. 

How to describe your relationship status in Spanish

Unless you’re married and proudly wearing your wedding ring, it may be difficult or impossible for others to guess your relationship status. As such, you might end up getting hit on when you’re in a happy relationship, situationship, it’s-more-complicated-than-it-seems relationship, or simply aren’t looking for anything. Here are some helpful ways to describe your relationship in Spanish that you can use on any occasion. 

Cultural tips for flirting in Spanish-speaking countries

Dating across cultures can be challenging, but that’s part of the reason it can also be extremely rewarding. Going out of your comfort zone can be difficult, and dating someone from a different culture will certainly expose you to new things and make you consider things from new angles. While this will certainly help you grow as a person, you should also take precautions to avoid being insensitive (and to avoid embarrassing yourself!).

Don’t read too much into physical touch

Latin American culture is warmer than most. That means that no matter where you’re from, you’re likely to disagree with Latin Americans on what is considered a friendly touch. 

Men should get their wallets ready

Although there is a very robust feminist movement in Latin America, there are still many gender norms that influence date night expectations. One of the biggest ones is who pays the bill at the end of the date. In the overwhelming majority of cases, men will be expected to get the check — so plan accordingly!

Take dancing lessons

One of the biggest complaints that Spanish and Latin American people have about tourists — especially those from the United States — is that they can’t dance! If you’ve ever partied in Madrid, Medellín or Tulum, then you know just how much Spanish speakers love to dance!

Taking dance lessons when you arrive at your destination can help you be prepared to make a great impression on the dance floor. What better way to knock someone off their feet than with impressive dance skills? Try doing it with two left feet, though, and you might end up literally knocking them off their feet! Talk about a faux pas!  

Don’t objectify

It should go without saying, but avoid dating someone just because you wanted to check them off your list. Saying things like “I’ve always wanted to date a Latina” or “I wanted to find a Colombian papi” reduces people to their identity instead of the complex individuals that they are.

Even if you mean well, it can be easy to parrot one of the many stereotypes about Latine people that are common in the media. Calling your Latine partner “spicy” or “passionate” only reinforces these stereotypes. 

Avoid overly romanticizing the country you’re in

Traveling can be an incredibly eye-opening experience, and we don’t blame you if you fall in love with one (or several!) of the 21 Spanish-speaking countries. However, it’s important to be aware of the fact that these countries and cultures are just as complex and diverse as your own. It’s easy to see a foreign country with rose-colored glasses when we don’t have to experience the struggles and frustrations that locals do. 

This can be especially problematic if you come from the United States or another high-income country. Some studies have found parallels between modern tourism and colonialism, highlighting the income inequality between the visitors and the hosts. Although this shouldn’t dissuade you from traveling and meeting locals, it serves as a gentle nudge to reconsider how we interact with the people we meet and the businesses we support in our travels. 

Don’t translate everything

You may be a Don Juan in your native language, but be wary of literal translations of your trusty pick-up lines. Even though they could technically make sense, they could also have a totally different meaning! 

For example, the popular pick-up line “It's a good thing I have my library card, because I am totally checking you out.” translates to “Qué bueno que tengo mi tarjeta de la biblioteca, porque definitivamente te estoy rentando.” Although the English version is a clever way to tell someone you’re attracted to them, the Spanish translation implies that you want to rent them! 

If you’re not an advanced Spanish speaker yet, then, by all means, stick to the pick-up lines in this guide!

Go get ‘em, tiger!

Now that you’ve got close to a hundred flirty, fun phrases and pickup lines under your belt, you’re more than ready to start testing your luck with the next person you set your sights on. While these are a bit of fun, remember always to be respectful! If all goes well, you’ll be able to impress some locals with your excellent Spanish flirting skills and perhaps even find the start of a romance of a lifetime. 

If this blog post made you believe in love and your ability to learn Spanish again, we have many other inspiring Spanish guides that will teach you things you may not cover in a classroom. Some of our most recent blogs include ways to say good night in Spanish, a guide to the hardest words in Spanish, and how to say good afternoon in Spanish.